Erwarte nicht, dass dein Aspie-Freund weiss, wie er dich trösten soll wenn du traurig bist. Das bedeutet nicht, dass er sich nicht sorgt. Stattdessen bedeutete es vermutlich das Gegenteil: dass er das Richtige tun und es nicht vermasseln will und deshalb übermässig vorsichtig ist, was die Sache leider verschlimmern kann. 6. Gib ihm Freiraum. Aspergirls is a place to share advice and tips for topics related to autism and self improvement. We help with questions related to autism and life skills, personal growth, healthy coping mechanisms, ect. Please be aware that we cannot help with any medical questions. Don't ask us to diagnose you or if your symptoms might be related to autism. Nowadays I hear lots of girls are worried cause they are still virgins at 20 or 22, why the society is so fvcked up that it puts pressure on girls who have not met some decent guy to get fcked, theres a lot of peer pressure, many of them feel unworthy if they do not have sex partner.
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She carries the badge of courage in her heart, the white dove of humility in her hands, and everywhere she goes she is either touched or touches down, leaving a trail of fairy dust, or a slough of mud, either way, the path altered. I just deleted an entire paragraph explaining why I am uncomfortable with self-promotion. Typical me! Over a year ago, I decided to move my memoir from one agency to another. It makes a great gift! The new book cover is by a talented autistic author and writer.
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Sometimes non verbal communication takes over in stressful situations. They may not have thevwords to describe whatvis going on. It is important to observe pain behaviors pressing a body part. My pdd. Thank you Sam — again! I loved all your points — but especially the last 2. Those last 2 really highlight to me that aspies are complex thinkers — or at least experience the world in a complex way.
As more and more thought leaders on the pioneering edge of systems thinking more fully embrace quantum theory, chaos theory and complex systems as the underlying principles for the only sustainable way forward, our strengths as complex thinkers will start being valued more by those who have, until now, made us feel unvalued and sidelined. Intensity, truth, nurturing.
Reblogged this on Learning and Labor. Oh hi! First ever appointment with a psychologist last week. My hamster wheel brain has been on overdrive! Much love xx. I love the way you describe in number 9. A beautiful description of a most beautiful personality trait. He is always so definite. Very black and white. To him, there is always a beginning and an end, reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps, reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps question and an answer, a start and a finish.
And I am the exact opposite. To me, everything is in flux, open-ended, subject to change. I guess you can see why this would create problems! Reblogged this on Rose with Thorns and commented: This really touched my heart. Never before had I heard Aspergers discussed this way, and it makes me feel so understood. Reblogged this on Appalachian aspie. Reblogged this on productiveprofessor. My son was diagnosed at age 3. He is very high functioning and I could pick out traits through observations of my family.
What you have written so completely reflects my reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps that I feel it viscerally. Now I need to convert this understanding from self-blame to empowerment for myself in the way I have done for my son.
I have a Ph. I have several transcripts from different colleges and universities as well as a resume that resembles a long RAP SHEET exhibiting all of the jobs I have had in the last 30 years. Hi Sharon, Nursing degrees in addition to another degree….
I have had multiple supervisors ding me on my interpersonal skills, without being able to give me reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps examples.
This has been so tiring and so incredibly personal. Have been at home for several years with the exception of working a few months here, a few weeks there. I just really cannot afford to remain in one place very long…. I loved your article. Thank you for sharing it. You have described us so eloquently, reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps, I cried my heart out.
Reblogged this on Oil Painter's Studio and commented: Undeniably one of the most touching, beautifully written articles I have read in a long time. I cried my heart out. This is so, so accurate and so, so touching. Beautiful with one major sour note. The lessons of mindfulness are there for everyone to learn, autistics and allistics alike.
Some people whether autistic or allistic will be limited in this regard and some may only be limited because of beliefs they hold onto, reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps. They are happy, content, and mature. I think it is time we retire this stereotype. It gives otherwise capable people an excuse to not grow.
I think the sentence is limiting in scope and explanation. Thanks for your feedback. Best wishes. I really loved this blog post, reddit dating ein aspie girl tipps. I do understand why someone took offense at the part about not maturing, but I believe your explanation. I am 58 and I am and have always been, mature for my age and responsible.
I have my dark moods and I do suffer, sometimes horribly. But in the end, my eyes clear and I seek the light on the horizon with eyes wide open and spirit reaching upward and outward.
I am 65 and just re-reading this series; and enjoying more than ever before! Loved your comment. Tonight I have come to the realisation that I am an aspie girl… very different to my aspie son… your post helped and was the final push i needed to come to terms with this. Thank you.
This is lovely, thanks. It reminds me of a description of doctor who which I also shared.
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Nowadays I hear lots of girls are worried cause they are still virgins at 20 or 22, why the society is so fvcked up that it puts pressure on girls who have not met some decent guy to get fcked, theres a lot of peer pressure, many of them feel unworthy if they do not have sex partner. 10 Ways I Can Spot an Aspie Girl 1. Deep, soulful eyes which perhaps dip down slightly and/or are very distinguished and large. There is someone in there with a story. There is truth. 2. An uncomfortable smile that cannot find a home which fluctuates between a chiseled, serious . r/Aspie: Press J to jump to the feed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. r/Aspie. log in sign up. User account menu. 1. how can i get a girl freind with aspergers. Close. 1. Posted by. u/SomeordinaryFan. 1 year ago. Archived. how can i get a girl freind with aspergers. I am 12 and I have aspergers but i want to date some one in 7th grade how do i get A girl.
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